Today is Friday, August 29th
The kids finished up their school work just a little while ago, for the day and week.
I think the week went pretty well. We had a day of struggle, but it turned out to be a really good week of learning.
We made a few changes in our school this year. Instead of doing their school work at the dinning room table, we cleared out the small bedroom, and turned it into a school room/office. This has proven to be a WONDERFUL thing. Last year there were a lot of distractions. Two of them being the little boys. Having them in a separate room, where we can close the door, to close off the noise and distractions caused by two very active and normal toddlers. The work was completed a lot faster, and with less frustration. We also put together some new rules for our classroom, some are very similar to what normal rules would be for a school classroom. One of the new rules, and a pretty hard one, is for the completion of school work. The school day is done at 3pm. It doesn't matter what isn't complete, school is done at 3pm! IF they haven't finished their work by that time, it becomes home work (Just like a regular school). The home work is due the next day. If it isn't completed and turned in, there will be a check mark put on the white board in the room. 3 or more check marks in one week, will result in complete black out (Thank you Dr. Ray), until ALL school work is caught up and turned in. NO EXCEPTIONS! My hope is, this will stop the kids from getting too terribly behind, due to laziness, and lack of concentration while doing their daily work.
We had to implement this on Tuesday (I think) this week. The older kids were really dragging their feet on Tuesday, so I told them, if school work isn't complete and turned in by Wednesday, they were on black out. Well, they didn't get everything complete, so Wednesday they were on black out until all their work was turned into me. They didn't get to go outside and play with the neighbors, or anything thing else until the work was done. GUESS WHAT?!?!? The work was completed and turned into me on Wednesday afternoon!!! YAY!!! It worked!!!
Faith is LOVING school! She is so far ahead of where she should be right now! According to our curriculum, she is on week 6 of her handwriting, and at least a week ahead on everything else! She is like a sponge. I am using this momentum to my advantage, and keeping her busy. Last Saturday, she brought me some of her school books, and asked to do some work, because she was bored.....really?!?! So, we worked on some of her school work :)
Justin: Completed all of his school work as asked, and got 100% on his first spelling and vocabulary tests!! He's working hard on his math, and other subjects.
Libby: She has a lot of English work to get through this year, because we bumped her back a grade in English last year, so she would have a good foundation of English, and Language Arts. This will be a difficult year for her in this subject, but she proved this week she is up to the challenge! So proud of her and her efforts!
Patrick and Nick: They seemed to enjoy the time with just me this week while the kids were in the room working on their work. While I do have things I should be doing, I did enjoy some quality time with the two little boys this week.
Quiet Time (aka nap time) is a heaven send! After lunch we do a quick clean up of the living and dinning rooms, clear the table and sweep. I rock Nick to sleep, and Patrick watches a little Netflix ( his current favorite show is "Justin Time". It's a cute little cartoon, and has lessons for the young boy in it. I like that!
After Nick is asleep and in bed, and while Patrick is laying on the couch, I start Faith on her work, and do dishes in between helping her out. I also try to get dinner figured out during this time. I usually have a pretty good idea of what we will have for the week, but keep it pretty flexible. Nick usually sleeps for an hour or two, and Patrick is content to watch "Justin Time" while I am getting that stuff done. Some of her school work is pretty hands on for both of us, so on those subjects, if I can't get to them before dinner, we complete them after dinner, and dinner clean up is done.
It feels like we are really starting to get into a good routine.
Last year was a bit more of a struggle, and I think that was because of having a new born, and a young toddler, who required a lot of my time and energy. Some how we managed, it didn't feel like we really got into a good routine though. I have hopes of a smoother year this year. Don't get me wrong, I know we will have our challenges, and we will hit our brick walls, but for now, I have hope!
Well, it's Friday afternoon, and we are going into a 3 day weekend. I think I will finish this up, and go spend some much needed down time with my family.
Have a great Labor Day weekend.
Blessings and love to all!
Friday, August 29, 2014
Thursday, July 10, 2014
Wisdom
It's been a while since I have posted anything. After the last few weeks, and a new perspective, I feel I would share.
I'm going to warn you, I probably won't use correct punctuation, or be 100% correct with following grammar rules and such. So, if this kind of thing drives you nuts.....you might want to skip this post, as I have 5 kiddos, which includes 1 newly walking toddler, along with a impish 2 year old. Chances are at some point and most likely several times in writing this post I will have to go rescue someone or something from the little ones :)
I was talking to a friend today, the last few weeks I have been incredibly frustrated with the lack of cooperation from the kids in certain things. They don't seem to be terribly motivated in cleaning their room, or finishing the last few things for school. Yes, I said for school. We are still working on some of our school stuff from this past year. We decided to take the month of December off, so we could prepare and enjoy the birth of Jesus as we should, and in the right spirit. We also took 3 weeks of over Easter for the same reason. That is one of the many joys of homeschooling, it is very flexible, and we can decide when we are going to take our "breaks" or "vacations".
Sorry, I tend to get side tracked sometimes, okay... a lot! I have been having a hard time getting the kids motivated to do their work. I'm frustrated with our house, and things constantly breaking (I know, it's a nearly 100 year old home, what do we expect?). The problem is, it isn't just one minor thing here or there that breaks. It's SEVERAL minor things or something major that needs repaired or replaced. We would LOVE to move, but that isn't financially feasible right now. The market in our area is still struggling, and there are bunch of homes that have been for sale, for the longest time.
What does all of this have to do with anything, you ask? Well, I'm going to get to that. If you know me at all, you know I am NOT a person who is a constant victim. I'm more the pull yourself up by the boot strings and kick butt, take names later, type person. I am not one prone to depression, or feeling sorry for myself. I do however get overwhelmed and incredibly frustrated when I am trying to put out so many fires. Such as keeping up with the house when 6 of us are home all the time. It's a struggle, I'm not going to lie. The house is NEVER perfectly clean, it's usually cluttered, and most days has plenty of toys on the floor, sometimes even piles of laundry.....gasp!
In expressing my feelings of frustration to a friend. This friend pointed out, this is exactly what the devil wants!!! He WANTS me to give up!!! He WANTS me frustrated and overwhelmed. IF I dwell on and pay attention to these feelings, he wins!! Plain and simple. He doesn't want our kids to have a good faith based education, he doesn't want our kids to be obedient to us. I know this, I really do. Sometimes, however when you are knee deep in the chaos, and you're not sure where to turn, or how to motivate your children to do what they should, he sneaks in....he plants the seed of doubt. It's so subtle you don't see it.
Thankfully, I have good friends who are there to remind us, we ARE doing what is right, we ARE doing as we should as a family of faith, and it is driving the devil NUTS!!! He is going to do everything in his power to stop us, because that is 5 more souls he doesn't have to fight for, or worse...fight against. He doesn't want our children to be children of faith. He doesn't want them to have strong work ethics, or a good moral code.
This friend I talked to, reassured me, we ARE doing what is right, even if society doesn't think so. Raising "your" children to have faith. To realize it isn't all about them, or centered around them, is tough. To raise kids now, you have to fight material possessions, horribly immodest fashions, and a whole host of other "issues" out there. For the most part we live pretty simply. We don't have cable T.V., we choose Netflix instead (which we still have to monitor). We don't watch a lot of regular T.V. even, there are too many "T.V. shows" that are not family friendly. So, yes, we are that weird family. We don't go along with what is considered "normal". We don't put up with "normal teenager" behavior out of our older two kids. We will not put up with them being disrespectful, to anyone. We don't put up with "attitude" or "sass" from our kids. They do hear "no" and they hear it a lot! No, it isn't a popular answer, and yes, there are times tears are involved. Mostly, they understand our reasons for saying "no", even if they don't agree with us.
I have found myself falling for his lies. Getting frustrated and yelling at the kids, or giving intense lectures because of their lack of cooperation. I did so just today. I went into the bathroom, found a towel on the door knob instead of being hung up on the towel rack. I got mad and "yelled" at them " I am tired of the laziness!!" I forget the devil doesn't want me to succeed, he also doesn't want the kids to succeed either. I plan on talking with the kids tonight, and bring this up. Please, don't get me wrong, we have amazing kids. The have such sweet and giving hearts. Usually they will do just about anything for someone who they know is struggling. Even if it means just giving that person a hug. Our kids love with all of their hearts, they do their best to live their faith.
This past weekend, I was having a conversation with someone, we were talking about faith, and some of the struggles we have made it though. One of them being loosing Catherine. This person said something to me: " You seem to lean on your faith a lot, can you imagine where you would be if you didn't have your faith?" That comment along with the conversation I had today, has made me realize, how important our faith is to us. It doesn't seem like it sometimes, and boy are there times when I want to give up, but something pushes me to keep going, or to try just one .....more..... time...... . While there are times, I agree it would be SO much easier to put our kids back in school, and go back to work. That isn't where I can do the most good. Here at home is where I belong, with these 5 amazing kids. It's not easy, but it is so very worth it. Every minute, every struggle, and sometimes every tear. The trade off is the hugs, kisses, giggles, and yes, sometimes the craziness too.
I was told by my friend today I needed to read about St. John Vianney, and all the things he went through.
In Libby's religion book it says " God knows we are weak, and that there is a constant struggle, but we must persevere and keep up the struggle! St. Peter wrote in his letters to the people in the different churches that life is like a race. We need to keep running, keep jumping over the hurdles or obstacles. We need to persevere and keep at it. The prize is eternal life." Wise words for sure. Ones I need to remember a little more often!
Blessings and love to all :)
I'm going to warn you, I probably won't use correct punctuation, or be 100% correct with following grammar rules and such. So, if this kind of thing drives you nuts.....you might want to skip this post, as I have 5 kiddos, which includes 1 newly walking toddler, along with a impish 2 year old. Chances are at some point and most likely several times in writing this post I will have to go rescue someone or something from the little ones :)
I was talking to a friend today, the last few weeks I have been incredibly frustrated with the lack of cooperation from the kids in certain things. They don't seem to be terribly motivated in cleaning their room, or finishing the last few things for school. Yes, I said for school. We are still working on some of our school stuff from this past year. We decided to take the month of December off, so we could prepare and enjoy the birth of Jesus as we should, and in the right spirit. We also took 3 weeks of over Easter for the same reason. That is one of the many joys of homeschooling, it is very flexible, and we can decide when we are going to take our "breaks" or "vacations".
Sorry, I tend to get side tracked sometimes, okay... a lot! I have been having a hard time getting the kids motivated to do their work. I'm frustrated with our house, and things constantly breaking (I know, it's a nearly 100 year old home, what do we expect?). The problem is, it isn't just one minor thing here or there that breaks. It's SEVERAL minor things or something major that needs repaired or replaced. We would LOVE to move, but that isn't financially feasible right now. The market in our area is still struggling, and there are bunch of homes that have been for sale, for the longest time.
What does all of this have to do with anything, you ask? Well, I'm going to get to that. If you know me at all, you know I am NOT a person who is a constant victim. I'm more the pull yourself up by the boot strings and kick butt, take names later, type person. I am not one prone to depression, or feeling sorry for myself. I do however get overwhelmed and incredibly frustrated when I am trying to put out so many fires. Such as keeping up with the house when 6 of us are home all the time. It's a struggle, I'm not going to lie. The house is NEVER perfectly clean, it's usually cluttered, and most days has plenty of toys on the floor, sometimes even piles of laundry.....gasp!
In expressing my feelings of frustration to a friend. This friend pointed out, this is exactly what the devil wants!!! He WANTS me to give up!!! He WANTS me frustrated and overwhelmed. IF I dwell on and pay attention to these feelings, he wins!! Plain and simple. He doesn't want our kids to have a good faith based education, he doesn't want our kids to be obedient to us. I know this, I really do. Sometimes, however when you are knee deep in the chaos, and you're not sure where to turn, or how to motivate your children to do what they should, he sneaks in....he plants the seed of doubt. It's so subtle you don't see it.
Thankfully, I have good friends who are there to remind us, we ARE doing what is right, we ARE doing as we should as a family of faith, and it is driving the devil NUTS!!! He is going to do everything in his power to stop us, because that is 5 more souls he doesn't have to fight for, or worse...fight against. He doesn't want our children to be children of faith. He doesn't want them to have strong work ethics, or a good moral code.
This friend I talked to, reassured me, we ARE doing what is right, even if society doesn't think so. Raising "your" children to have faith. To realize it isn't all about them, or centered around them, is tough. To raise kids now, you have to fight material possessions, horribly immodest fashions, and a whole host of other "issues" out there. For the most part we live pretty simply. We don't have cable T.V., we choose Netflix instead (which we still have to monitor). We don't watch a lot of regular T.V. even, there are too many "T.V. shows" that are not family friendly. So, yes, we are that weird family. We don't go along with what is considered "normal". We don't put up with "normal teenager" behavior out of our older two kids. We will not put up with them being disrespectful, to anyone. We don't put up with "attitude" or "sass" from our kids. They do hear "no" and they hear it a lot! No, it isn't a popular answer, and yes, there are times tears are involved. Mostly, they understand our reasons for saying "no", even if they don't agree with us.
I have found myself falling for his lies. Getting frustrated and yelling at the kids, or giving intense lectures because of their lack of cooperation. I did so just today. I went into the bathroom, found a towel on the door knob instead of being hung up on the towel rack. I got mad and "yelled" at them " I am tired of the laziness!!" I forget the devil doesn't want me to succeed, he also doesn't want the kids to succeed either. I plan on talking with the kids tonight, and bring this up. Please, don't get me wrong, we have amazing kids. The have such sweet and giving hearts. Usually they will do just about anything for someone who they know is struggling. Even if it means just giving that person a hug. Our kids love with all of their hearts, they do their best to live their faith.
This past weekend, I was having a conversation with someone, we were talking about faith, and some of the struggles we have made it though. One of them being loosing Catherine. This person said something to me: " You seem to lean on your faith a lot, can you imagine where you would be if you didn't have your faith?" That comment along with the conversation I had today, has made me realize, how important our faith is to us. It doesn't seem like it sometimes, and boy are there times when I want to give up, but something pushes me to keep going, or to try just one .....more..... time...... . While there are times, I agree it would be SO much easier to put our kids back in school, and go back to work. That isn't where I can do the most good. Here at home is where I belong, with these 5 amazing kids. It's not easy, but it is so very worth it. Every minute, every struggle, and sometimes every tear. The trade off is the hugs, kisses, giggles, and yes, sometimes the craziness too.
I was told by my friend today I needed to read about St. John Vianney, and all the things he went through.
In Libby's religion book it says " God knows we are weak, and that there is a constant struggle, but we must persevere and keep up the struggle! St. Peter wrote in his letters to the people in the different churches that life is like a race. We need to keep running, keep jumping over the hurdles or obstacles. We need to persevere and keep at it. The prize is eternal life." Wise words for sure. Ones I need to remember a little more often!
Blessings and love to all :)
Saturday, January 26, 2013
Our "Vacation"
We left to go to Ohio on Friday night, with 3 very excited kids, and a happy toddler. We stopped on Friday night to stay the night in Illinois. Got up Saturday morning, had a nice continental breakfast at the hotel, packed up, and we were back on the road heading to see family after a very long 3 year absence. Needless to say Grandma and Grandpa Battson had some pretty big plans for us to go do things together. Brian's parents are gracious enough to allow us to stay with them so we can save on the costs of our trip, to make it a little more affordable for us. Thank goodness for loving in-laws!!
We arrived in really good time on Saturday, after a couple stops for lunch, and stretching out our legs, we made it to Ohio by 4:30pm. The kids once again, are VERY excited, one to be out of the car, and two to see Grandma and Grandpa. Saturday night we just kinda hung out with Grandma and Grandpa.
Sunday morning we got up, had breakfast, and headed to church, along with Brian's parents and our nephews from Brian's sister. The afternoon, was spent with family, at a local pizza place called Marions (OMGosh good pizza!) We were at the pizza place for a few hours, and went back to his parents house, and hung out with his siblings. Some of Brian's Aunt's and Uncle's where able to be there as well. We got to talk and catch up on what has been going on for the last 3 years. We had a really nice time hanging out with the family in Ohio. Who we have missed so very much, the last three years. We haven't really had the chance to get to Ohio like we like to, due to finances and other things.
Monday, we found out Brian's brother and his girlfriend were coming back "in town" from Cincinnati to hang out and spend the day with us, along with his younger sister and her 3 boys, who live just down the street, and his little sister who came into town from PA. Sunday we met her 2 girls (the youngest who is almost 3) for the first time. The last time we saw her oldest daughter she was still just a baby, so it was like meeting her for the first time as well. Beautiful little girls with SUCH personality! She had to leave just after lunch to make the 4 hour drive home to PA by herself with her two young daughters. The other siblings live a little closer and were able to stay until after dinner.
After dinner we said our good byes, and settled in for what we thought would be a nice relaxing evening. However there were other plans in the works. Patrick our 16 month old started throwing up, and continued to all night long. Finally starting to keep some fluids down around 7am on Tuesday. Justin started getting sick as well a few hours later, so all night we had two kids throwing up. There went our plans to visit the Air Force Musem on Tuesday....as both the boys were still very pale. I will say staying up all night with a sick 16 month lead to some interesting information for me.
FYI:
Did you know, when a person has the stomach flu, once the symptoms are all gone, they are still contagious for 3 to 4 DAYS!!!! Yes you read right, 3 to 4 DAYS!!!! So, keep yourself and those little ones home until you are sure everyone is all healed up!
Well, Wednesday came, and we were supposed to be meeting up and spending the day in Cincinnati, with his older brother and his girlfriend. All of us "Kansas Battson's" were really looking forward to it. However, our plans had to change, thanks to two little boys who still weren't feeling the best, and on a very restricted diet, due to being so sick. So, we spent the day and evening again in the house, watching movies and such. By Wednesday evening it was starting to look like we were in the clear. No one else had gotten sick, and we planned on going to the Air Force Musem finally on Thursday.
Thursday morning we all get up, kids are once again VERY excited to be getting ready to go to the Air Force Museum, we all had breakfast together, and were getting ready to leave..................YEP! You guessed it, another person fell victim to the flu, this time it was Brian's Dad. So Grandma thought it would be best for her to stay home with Grandpa, since he wasn't feeling good, and sent us on our way to the museum. Faith had been complaining some about her tummy hurting, but we figured (hoped) it was nothing, and headed to the museum for a MUCH needed day out of the house and some fun. We did make it most the way though the museum, before Faith told me she was tired and her tummy was hurting again. So we agreed as a family we would go ahead and cut our outing to the musem short, for the two littlest memebers of our family to get a nap.
We stopped at Mc Donald's (Faith's FAVORITE place to eat) and grabbed some lunch to eat on the way to our next destination. Patrick was already asleep, in his much needed nap, and Faith had fallen asleep as well. We tried to wake her up for lunch, but she was tired and just wanted to sleep. About 10 minutes later,our poor little Faith was throwing up in our van, while we were eating lunch. Watching your little 5 year old cry, and beg to go home, is not the way we planned on spending our day. So yep, another day cut short thanks to this wonderful Flu. And yet another night stuck inside with a sick little one, and Grandpa on the mend. It is now nearly 6pm, and Faith is still asleep on the floor, after sleeping most of the day.
At this point, Libby hasn't yet gotten it, and on Wednesday, Brian and I had some nausea, but we figured, it was just being around all the sickness that was going around. We are thinking/hoping that we had a light case of the flu going around. I hope on top of hope, and pray, that we are done with this as a family, so we can enjoy our last day of "vacation" as a non-throwing up family, out of the house doing something..........ANYTHING! I am also hoping and praying that it is done, since we still have a 12 hour drive home on Saturday. To be honest with you, I am somewhat fearful of our drive home. What happens if one of us gets sick while out on the road, that could make for a terrible/horrible/nightmarish drive home.
Needless to say I am frustrated, pissed off, tired, and what ever other emotion you can imagine at this point. This was supposed to be our family vacation time, time to spend with Brian's parents, having fun, hanging out, and enjoying each others company. Unfortunately it has been exactly the oppisite. Don't get me wrong, Brian's parents have been wonderful about the whole thing, and we are coping with this mess the best we can, and making the best of it we can. But seriously, enough is enough!
Thank God, truly, thank God for Brian's parents....what a great set of in-laws I have been blessed with!
Maybe our next "vacation" to Ohio will be much better...........
Thursday, January 10, 2013
It's been a while!
I have been sitting here at the computer most of the day (when not holding Patrick), typing out lesson plans, and quizzes the kids need for tomorrow. Some of the questions or assignments they need to do are listed in the parents lesson plans, and not in the books. Such as discussion questions, diagramming sentences, and questions about stories they read this week in the Bible.
I realized it's been a long time since I have blogged or given any updates, so here it is:
It's been an interesting couple of months since I last blogged:
We found out we are expecting our 5th child (6th pregnancy) in early July. While this has been a wonderful surprise, it has also thrown our schedule for a loop! Mostly because of the exhaustion I have felt over the last few months. part of that is due to anemia, and part of it is, I am a pregnant mother of 4 kids whom I homeschool.
While I hate to admit, I am going to anyway. In my last blog I mentioned I was going to have the kids start grading some of their own work, and the first few weeks of that went great..........then the nausea took up residence, along with the anemia, and I got well....LAZY. I didn't stay on top of the kids with them grading their own work, like I should have. When I first started them on the grading their own work, they were doing GREAT! I was able to trust them, and only spot check their work about twice a week. Well in my laziness I hadn't checked up on them in a few weeks, because they had done SO well.................BIG mistake!!
When I did finally start getting some energy back, I started on all the grading that I was behind on. Let me tell you, what I found was a huge eye opener! Libby was struggling with her English, and when she didn't understand something, instead of coming to me to ask, she would simply put "Ask mommy or daddy" and move on. Justin thought it would be okay on his math, to put -48(!) instead of doing his math work.....I couldn't believe it!! Both of them did this on several pages in these two subjects.
Well, after some mighty long talks about responsibility and some apologies from me as well.....I don't think this will be an issue ever again. I think all of us learned from this very hard lesson! The good news is, while this did set us back a little bit (due to needing to go back and complete these assignments), we are still on a pretty decent track. I think I had mentioned in and earlier blog, we were set to finish up school in late April. Now it is looking more like the end of May, but keep in mind we are planning a vacation in there as well to Ohio to visit with Brian's parents and family. We haven't been back "home" since Faith was 2 years old, yep, it's been 3 years since we have been out to visit the Battson side of the family. Brian's parents are the only ones who have met Patrick, and that was when he was just a few months old! I think it's about time we head that way to see them! No we will not be taking school with us on this trip.
So, there you have it..........it's not pretty, but it's honest, and for those of you out there wondering what we have been up to, now you know. This has definitely been a learning year for all of us, as we adjust to this new way of life. We have no regrets at all to the choices we have made as a family and for our family. I still firmly believe this was the best choice for us. Does that mean it's right for you?? No. That is up to you and our Heavenly Father to decide. If you are thinking about trying homeschooling, my advice at this point would be spend lots of time in prayer asking God if this is where he is leading your family. It took 2 years of prayer and research, and more prayer, and asking advice from homeschooling families, as well as close friends, for us to make the leap into homeschooling.
Blessings and love to all of you in 2013!
I realized it's been a long time since I have blogged or given any updates, so here it is:
It's been an interesting couple of months since I last blogged:
We found out we are expecting our 5th child (6th pregnancy) in early July. While this has been a wonderful surprise, it has also thrown our schedule for a loop! Mostly because of the exhaustion I have felt over the last few months. part of that is due to anemia, and part of it is, I am a pregnant mother of 4 kids whom I homeschool.
While I hate to admit, I am going to anyway. In my last blog I mentioned I was going to have the kids start grading some of their own work, and the first few weeks of that went great..........then the nausea took up residence, along with the anemia, and I got well....LAZY. I didn't stay on top of the kids with them grading their own work, like I should have. When I first started them on the grading their own work, they were doing GREAT! I was able to trust them, and only spot check their work about twice a week. Well in my laziness I hadn't checked up on them in a few weeks, because they had done SO well.................BIG mistake!!
When I did finally start getting some energy back, I started on all the grading that I was behind on. Let me tell you, what I found was a huge eye opener! Libby was struggling with her English, and when she didn't understand something, instead of coming to me to ask, she would simply put "Ask mommy or daddy" and move on. Justin thought it would be okay on his math, to put -48(!) instead of doing his math work.....I couldn't believe it!! Both of them did this on several pages in these two subjects.
Well, after some mighty long talks about responsibility and some apologies from me as well.....I don't think this will be an issue ever again. I think all of us learned from this very hard lesson! The good news is, while this did set us back a little bit (due to needing to go back and complete these assignments), we are still on a pretty decent track. I think I had mentioned in and earlier blog, we were set to finish up school in late April. Now it is looking more like the end of May, but keep in mind we are planning a vacation in there as well to Ohio to visit with Brian's parents and family. We haven't been back "home" since Faith was 2 years old, yep, it's been 3 years since we have been out to visit the Battson side of the family. Brian's parents are the only ones who have met Patrick, and that was when he was just a few months old! I think it's about time we head that way to see them! No we will not be taking school with us on this trip.
So, there you have it..........it's not pretty, but it's honest, and for those of you out there wondering what we have been up to, now you know. This has definitely been a learning year for all of us, as we adjust to this new way of life. We have no regrets at all to the choices we have made as a family and for our family. I still firmly believe this was the best choice for us. Does that mean it's right for you?? No. That is up to you and our Heavenly Father to decide. If you are thinking about trying homeschooling, my advice at this point would be spend lots of time in prayer asking God if this is where he is leading your family. It took 2 years of prayer and research, and more prayer, and asking advice from homeschooling families, as well as close friends, for us to make the leap into homeschooling.
Blessings and love to all of you in 2013!
Tuesday, October 16, 2012
First Quarter
Well we are about 2 weeks away from the end of the first quarter of school. Looking back, things have gone pretty well. We have our GREAT days, and our not so good days where we struggle a bit to get all the work completed.
I read several books before we signed up for the homeschooling, I did NOT go into this unprepared or not knowing there would be difficult days. The last book I read was Catholic home schooling by Mary Kay Clark. She is the director of Seton Home Study, the curriculum we use. In there she says you need to be some what flexible. She also says "Do not have to long of a school day. Homeschooling is far more intensive learning than in a classroom, so do not go past five or six hours total." I very much agree with this, it seems what would normally take 45 minutes or longer in a traditional class room setting, takes us about 20 minutes max. She also says "After a certain amount of formal class time, children simply cannot absorb any more, so continuing becomes pointless." Which again I have witnessed and agree with.
My point in all of this is, this first quarter has been a learning and adjusting experience for both Brian and I, and also the kids. All in all, we have far more GREAT days vs the not so good days. On those GREAT days we push through, and even work a head a bit, if time allows. On the days we struggle, we make sure to get the core subjects done, and afterwords we call it a day. It doesn't take much to "catch up" the other stuff. Just as an example, Justin is over a week ahead in his English book. The only reason it's only a week ahead, was because I made him stop...LOL.
As it is, at this point, we are scheduled to finish school up by the end of April, that INCLUDES a few days off for Thanksgiving, Christmas break, and Easter break. I am scheduling a few field trips as we can, and allowing for a few random days off here, and there just like there would be in a traditional school (with teachers in service and such). We also only work a half day on Friday's because that is the day we do all our grocery shopping and errands.
The thing that I think I like most is, the kids are working and learning at their pace, and seem to be doing rather well. I was looking at my grade book, and for instance Libby's lowest grade so far is a solid "C". Which compared to last year is a HUGE improvement. She has a "B" in Spelling which is major for her, because spelling just isn't her thing.
We are making some more changes in the next week. One of the things the books suggests is to let children who are trustworthy to grade some of their own daily work. "....encourage your children to grade their own papers immediately after they have done their assignment. The advantage to this is that children can recall their thought processes when they answered their questions or problems, and thus can learn from their grading." " In addition, self grading develops honesty and usually accuracy." The other thing we are going to change (of course I'm not sure how long this one will last, but it's worth a try), will be getting up when Brian gets up to get ready for work. This will allow us to have breakfast together as a family, and we will start school right after. This means getting the kids up at 6 am, and we will be starting school around 7 am. The reason I want to try this is, Brian gets up at 4:30 most mornings. With the long hours he has been working, most nights the kids are in bed (bed time is at 9pm) before he gets home from work. Granted right now is a extremely busy time of the year for him at his job, and it should only last a few more weeks. This would allow me to get the kids in bed by say 8pm, and Brian and I can head off to bed by 9:30 at the latest. I really LOVE the flexibility of home schooling! Another thing I love, when Patrick is in our classroom with us, if he gets fussy and I am working with someone, Libby or Justin will pick him up, and continue on with their school work while holding him on their lap. What a wonderful bonding and learning experience for all of our kids!
Well there you have it, that's what has been going on in our world.....hope you have a great rest of the week.
I read several books before we signed up for the homeschooling, I did NOT go into this unprepared or not knowing there would be difficult days. The last book I read was Catholic home schooling by Mary Kay Clark. She is the director of Seton Home Study, the curriculum we use. In there she says you need to be some what flexible. She also says "Do not have to long of a school day. Homeschooling is far more intensive learning than in a classroom, so do not go past five or six hours total." I very much agree with this, it seems what would normally take 45 minutes or longer in a traditional class room setting, takes us about 20 minutes max. She also says "After a certain amount of formal class time, children simply cannot absorb any more, so continuing becomes pointless." Which again I have witnessed and agree with.
My point in all of this is, this first quarter has been a learning and adjusting experience for both Brian and I, and also the kids. All in all, we have far more GREAT days vs the not so good days. On those GREAT days we push through, and even work a head a bit, if time allows. On the days we struggle, we make sure to get the core subjects done, and afterwords we call it a day. It doesn't take much to "catch up" the other stuff. Just as an example, Justin is over a week ahead in his English book. The only reason it's only a week ahead, was because I made him stop...LOL.
As it is, at this point, we are scheduled to finish school up by the end of April, that INCLUDES a few days off for Thanksgiving, Christmas break, and Easter break. I am scheduling a few field trips as we can, and allowing for a few random days off here, and there just like there would be in a traditional school (with teachers in service and such). We also only work a half day on Friday's because that is the day we do all our grocery shopping and errands.
The thing that I think I like most is, the kids are working and learning at their pace, and seem to be doing rather well. I was looking at my grade book, and for instance Libby's lowest grade so far is a solid "C". Which compared to last year is a HUGE improvement. She has a "B" in Spelling which is major for her, because spelling just isn't her thing.
We are making some more changes in the next week. One of the things the books suggests is to let children who are trustworthy to grade some of their own daily work. "....encourage your children to grade their own papers immediately after they have done their assignment. The advantage to this is that children can recall their thought processes when they answered their questions or problems, and thus can learn from their grading." " In addition, self grading develops honesty and usually accuracy." The other thing we are going to change (of course I'm not sure how long this one will last, but it's worth a try), will be getting up when Brian gets up to get ready for work. This will allow us to have breakfast together as a family, and we will start school right after. This means getting the kids up at 6 am, and we will be starting school around 7 am. The reason I want to try this is, Brian gets up at 4:30 most mornings. With the long hours he has been working, most nights the kids are in bed (bed time is at 9pm) before he gets home from work. Granted right now is a extremely busy time of the year for him at his job, and it should only last a few more weeks. This would allow me to get the kids in bed by say 8pm, and Brian and I can head off to bed by 9:30 at the latest. I really LOVE the flexibility of home schooling! Another thing I love, when Patrick is in our classroom with us, if he gets fussy and I am working with someone, Libby or Justin will pick him up, and continue on with their school work while holding him on their lap. What a wonderful bonding and learning experience for all of our kids!
Well there you have it, that's what has been going on in our world.....hope you have a great rest of the week.
(Please excuse any typos, or misspellings, Patrick is on my lap "helping" me type)
Friday, September 21, 2012
Batt Book
So, last week I posted about introducing the "Batt Buck" program. I've been thinking about it all week, and I was trying to come up with a way to make this a little more educational, as well as a rewards program for our kids.....then it hit me!!!
Our kids, probably like a lot of yours don't understand the concept of money, as far as, you can't just got to the bank and get more, if more isn't there!
I also have been trying to come up with a better holder of our Batt money, we have been using envelopes, but they get torn and ratty looking SO very fast.........WHAM! Another idea hit me.....(I'm starting to get bruises! LOL)
Why not take all of these ideas and combine them into one????
And voila! Here you have it! May I introduce our Batt Book:
You see it is just a plain old check book cover that I got from a local bank, of course I got 3 different colors (which is all they had) for 3 kids. This will make keeping track of which book belongs to who much easier!
I did take a small piece of packing tape to close the bottom section of the check book cover, so that their hard earned bucks don't fall out. As you can see, the portion of the checkbook cover that would normally hold the check book, is now converted so it can hold their bucks.
So now we not only have a reward system, we have a learning tool as well! Now the kids can "deposit" money into their Batt Book, and as they use their Batt Bucks, they can keep track of them as well.
So we have Rewards program +Home economic lesson + math practice!!! I'm thrilled!
Here is the link where I found the play money templates for our Batt Bucks:
http://www.kidsmoneyfarm.com
They have several different templates you can choose from, this is the one I chose:
This is what our Batt Bucks look like. I do have one in the twenty "dollar" bill as well, that has Libby's picture in it, but for some reason I couldn't get it to print. As you can see, I put Patrick on the one (since he just turned one), Faith on the five (she will be five), and Justin on the ten (well....you get it). My printer was running out of ink, but you get the idea, of what they look like. I love that I was able to put the kids pictures in them =)
As far as the check book covers and registers go, I went to our local bank and explained to them I am home schooling our children, and I want to teach them about money, banks, and check books. They were more then happy to give me 3 check book covers, along with the registers. The bank teller/manager thought this was a GREAT idea, and a wonderful way to start teaching our kids about money, banks, and checking accounts. By the end of the year, my kids SHOULD know how to keep a check book, and balance it, PLUS they can see all the bucks they have earned through out the year, and how they spent them. I am so very excited to start this with the kids this week....CAN YOU TELL???
Well, there you have it, my great plan to incorporate an ongoing lesson, and rewards program for our kids....
What do you think?
Our kids, probably like a lot of yours don't understand the concept of money, as far as, you can't just got to the bank and get more, if more isn't there!
I also have been trying to come up with a better holder of our Batt money, we have been using envelopes, but they get torn and ratty looking SO very fast.........WHAM! Another idea hit me.....(I'm starting to get bruises! LOL)
Why not take all of these ideas and combine them into one????
And voila! Here you have it! May I introduce our Batt Book:
You see it is just a plain old check book cover that I got from a local bank, of course I got 3 different colors (which is all they had) for 3 kids. This will make keeping track of which book belongs to who much easier!
I did take a small piece of packing tape to close the bottom section of the check book cover, so that their hard earned bucks don't fall out. As you can see, the portion of the checkbook cover that would normally hold the check book, is now converted so it can hold their bucks.
So now we not only have a reward system, we have a learning tool as well! Now the kids can "deposit" money into their Batt Book, and as they use their Batt Bucks, they can keep track of them as well.
So we have Rewards program +Home economic lesson + math practice!!! I'm thrilled!
Here is the link where I found the play money templates for our Batt Bucks:
http://www.kidsmoneyfarm.com
This is what our Batt Bucks look like. I do have one in the twenty "dollar" bill as well, that has Libby's picture in it, but for some reason I couldn't get it to print. As you can see, I put Patrick on the one (since he just turned one), Faith on the five (she will be five), and Justin on the ten (well....you get it). My printer was running out of ink, but you get the idea, of what they look like. I love that I was able to put the kids pictures in them =)
As far as the check book covers and registers go, I went to our local bank and explained to them I am home schooling our children, and I want to teach them about money, banks, and check books. They were more then happy to give me 3 check book covers, along with the registers. The bank teller/manager thought this was a GREAT idea, and a wonderful way to start teaching our kids about money, banks, and checking accounts. By the end of the year, my kids SHOULD know how to keep a check book, and balance it, PLUS they can see all the bucks they have earned through out the year, and how they spent them. I am so very excited to start this with the kids this week....CAN YOU TELL???
Well, there you have it, my great plan to incorporate an ongoing lesson, and rewards program for our kids....
What do you think?
Friday, September 14, 2012
Week 3
This week and the past weekend we are all suffering horribly from allergies, so no one is sleeping well, and I sure can tell from the amount of bickering that is going on between my kids!
September 10 - Justin started out the day writing five things he likes about Faith. This was punishment for him yelling at her during breakfast. Faith had to come tell me five things she really liked about Justin (since she doesn't read yet). The day was a bit of a challenge, the kids were bickering and short with each other and me. I think this really has to do with them not feeling very good thanks to fall allergies.
September 11 - Started out much better, I switched things up a bit, and we did all our chores and cleaning in the morning after breakfast. We started school around 9:30 and everyone seemed to settle in much better and got right to work with out complaining or whining at all. Later in the afternoon the kids will have religion class with Grandma via Skype.
September 12 - They had a pretty good day, got through their work with out any major problems.....all in all a pretty good day!
September 13 - Today is Patrick's 1st birthday! I made a deal with the kids, if they got to work and did a good job today, I would end school after the kids Skype with Grandma Battson. There were a few things, they needed to finish, so we got done pretty close to when I said we would end. Tonight is the first Little Flower girls meeting, and the girls are really looking forward to it.
September 14 - Patrick had a bit a of a rough night, not feeling good, and running a bit of a fever, which I really think it is his teeth. So we decided we would take a day off today, since he was so clingy all day. It's currently 5:00, and he just in the last half hour has gotten down off of me for the first time today, and is playing and laughing........
Well, like you can see, our life is very much an adventure. It's a fun one, with some really good roller coaster hills in it, but that's what keeps it exciting....never know what's gonna happen next!
Have a great weekend everyone!
September 10 - Justin started out the day writing five things he likes about Faith. This was punishment for him yelling at her during breakfast. Faith had to come tell me five things she really liked about Justin (since she doesn't read yet). The day was a bit of a challenge, the kids were bickering and short with each other and me. I think this really has to do with them not feeling very good thanks to fall allergies.
September 11 - Started out much better, I switched things up a bit, and we did all our chores and cleaning in the morning after breakfast. We started school around 9:30 and everyone seemed to settle in much better and got right to work with out complaining or whining at all. Later in the afternoon the kids will have religion class with Grandma via Skype.
September 12 - They had a pretty good day, got through their work with out any major problems.....all in all a pretty good day!
September 13 - Today is Patrick's 1st birthday! I made a deal with the kids, if they got to work and did a good job today, I would end school after the kids Skype with Grandma Battson. There were a few things, they needed to finish, so we got done pretty close to when I said we would end. Tonight is the first Little Flower girls meeting, and the girls are really looking forward to it.
September 14 - Patrick had a bit a of a rough night, not feeling good, and running a bit of a fever, which I really think it is his teeth. So we decided we would take a day off today, since he was so clingy all day. It's currently 5:00, and he just in the last half hour has gotten down off of me for the first time today, and is playing and laughing........
Well, like you can see, our life is very much an adventure. It's a fun one, with some really good roller coaster hills in it, but that's what keeps it exciting....never know what's gonna happen next!
Have a great weekend everyone!
Monday, September 10, 2012
Batt Buck
This week we are introducing the "Batt Buck" program. What is it? Well, as you know the kids have been rushing through some of their work and not paying attention to some of the instructions, so to help settle this down Brian and I came up with an incentive program....called the "Batt Buck".
How it works:
For each of the following grades they get on their daily work, they will either receive a Batt Buck or owe one.
A - 2 Batt Bucks Earned
B - 1 Batt Buck Earned
C - Nothing
D - 1 Batt Buck owed to Mom/Dad
F - 2 Batt Bucks owed to Mom/Dad
So as you see, they have potential to earn quiet a few "Batt Bucks" if they pay attention to their work, if not, they will have to pay us back. The Batt Buck can be saved to earn things, like an ice cream cone, or a trip to maze craze. We will have some things that don't cost so much, an others they need to save for.
Brian and I thought about the different reward programs we could use, such as the treasure box filled with little trinkets, the more we thought about it, the less we liked it, because it meant adding more junk that isn't needed. Also, by giving them the chance to go "do" something, it gets all three of them excited. This incentive program also allows them to get the positive reinforcement they need for a job well done, or the consequence for little effort. I'll keep you up to date on how this works out for us.
How it works:
For each of the following grades they get on their daily work, they will either receive a Batt Buck or owe one.
A - 2 Batt Bucks Earned
B - 1 Batt Buck Earned
C - Nothing
D - 1 Batt Buck owed to Mom/Dad
F - 2 Batt Bucks owed to Mom/Dad
So as you see, they have potential to earn quiet a few "Batt Bucks" if they pay attention to their work, if not, they will have to pay us back. The Batt Buck can be saved to earn things, like an ice cream cone, or a trip to maze craze. We will have some things that don't cost so much, an others they need to save for.
Brian and I thought about the different reward programs we could use, such as the treasure box filled with little trinkets, the more we thought about it, the less we liked it, because it meant adding more junk that isn't needed. Also, by giving them the chance to go "do" something, it gets all three of them excited. This incentive program also allows them to get the positive reinforcement they need for a job well done, or the consequence for little effort. I'll keep you up to date on how this works out for us.
Friday, September 7, 2012
2nd week of school
This is how our second week of home schooling went:
September 3rd - NO SCHOOL - LABOR DAY!!! The kids thought it was pretty cool that we took Labor day off just like a "regular" school would. (why shouldn't we?)
We are really starting to get into a routine when it comes to school. (I'm pretty happy about this). Faith started school this week, and it went very smooth, she was really excited to start her school work, and just like Libby and Justin, she sat down and got right to it. All the kids completed their work in a very timely manner, with no problems at all!
Lets go kid by kid ok?
Faith: Loves her school books, now granted with her being in pre-school, she doesn't have a lot to do, and a good portion of it is coloring. However, I will say I really like the way the school has everything set up. We don't go according to the number of the pages (ie 1, 2, 3...), instead they go along with the theme. Like this week the theme was "Jesus loves the little children" so, all her work was based on this theme, she read the story in her children's Bible about Jesus and the children, she had coloring pages that matched, and in her Saint coloring book she learned about St. Peter Claver. Now she does have "handwriting" but it seems somewhat easy for her, so I have been giving her extra handwriting sheet so she can practice a little more.
When she finishes her school work she has a couple different options she can do 1) play quietly at her desk with play dough. 2) Color quietly at her desk. 3) go downstairs and play with Patrick and Grandma (and yes she is allowed to watch some TV with Patrick). I will say that Grandma has been wonderful in coming up and watching the baby for me as we get into a good school routine! Thanks Mom!!!
Justin: Well, Justin is Justin, smart as a whip and boy does he know it! He flies through his work with few mistakes, and when I point them out, he happily goes back to correct them. I was really impressed with Justin on Wednesday. The girls had completed their work, and it was about 3pm (we got a late start that day), Patrick was getting fussy because he wanted me (he wanted to nurse), so I went downstairs, the girls did their chores (mostly) and were sitting around coloring as I was working on the next days lesson plans. I looked around and noticed Justin hadn't come down stairs yet. At 4:30 I hollered up the stairs (yes I know I was being lazy) and asked what he was doing. He was still working on his school work!!! He didn't stop until he was done. He didn't get done with all his work until 5:30 that night! How awesome was it that he stayed with it until he was done???! Soooo very proud of my son!!!
Libby: Libby is doing great, still making some mistakes because she is rushing through some things.But we are working on that. She is doing REALLY well in math and spelling, which is amazing, because she seemed to really struggle with those 2 subjects last year. I think it has to do with the format when it comes to spelling. The lesson is broken down into 4 parts, the first day they write their spelling word in what ever order it says in the book (sometimes it is by sound, alphabetical order, etc....) The second day it is fill in the blanks on the words, there are sentences, and the kids fill in the correct word. It continues that way through Friday when they have their spelling test.
My Thoughts on this week: You know, I have really enjoyed this week, the kids have been great, with little to no problems at all. Libby did have some work she was supposed to do, that she didn't get done, so yesterday (Thursday) I told if she didn't have it into me by the end of the day she was going to get all of those questions marked as wrong (which they are if they aren't answered). Guess what? It was on my desk last night! I'm going to give them one more week of being nice, and allowing them to go back and correct their mistakes (mostly from rushing through and not reading the directions completely), after that, what ever they get is their grade for that day. I will say with me being on them about making sure to read the instructions CAREFULLY, I have seen a lot less mistakes this week. All in all, I am VERY happy with the progress they have made this week, and the effort they are putting out. Next week I will start really getting on them about their chores (making sure they are done).
OH! I forgot to mention, about yesterday (Thursday)- The kids are having "Religion Class" with Grandma Battson twice a week, yesterday was their first class with her. Grandma teaches CCD in Ohio to second graders. We talked about it, and came up with the idea that I would make sure they are doing their daily work, and twice a week they are going to video chat with Grandma and she is going to "check up" on what they are learning. We felt this was going to be a great experience for the kids AND Grandma. If we had them in SOR they would be doing this with a teacher anyways, so why not let Grandma have this special time with the kids. Well just from the little bit the kids and Grandma told me, it went very well, and everyone seemed to enjoy it :)
Sorry this was such a long blog, but that is a LOT to get through. =0)
Have a GREAT weekend everyone!
Wednesday, September 5, 2012
1st Week of school
As most of you know, we chose to home school our children this year. It is yet another adventure in the Battson family!
We are using Seton Home Study this year, and while the suggested schedule doesn't start until after Labor day, the kids have been very excited to get started. So Brian and I talked about it, and we thought it would be a good idea to go ahead and get started a week early, while the kids are excited.
August 27th - I will say this first day has been nice. I thought since we are starting a week "early" I would let the kids do "1/2 days" this week, and see what we can get accomplished. I started school at 9:30 this morning, and the kids only have a few more subjects to go. I can see us easily being done, with a full day of Curriculum by 1pm. Which is much further then I thought we would get. Granted that is on the kids side of things, I will still have the grading the work, and such this evening, the nice thing is, Brian is going to work with the kids on Math and History. He also is going to help me with the grading of their work in the evening hours.
We thought it wise to start out slow, and make sure we get into a good routine from the start, we'll try it this way for a few weeks and make adjustments as needed. So far we are doing pretty good.
August 28th - Today went just as smoothly as yesterday. I worked with Faith for a little bit, but that proved to be a bit of a challenge, as she is not feeling good and the cough isn't getting any better, and she isn't sleeping well. I think I will hold off on starting her until next week. Hopefully she will be over what ever this is she has, and will be more into doing her work.
August 29th - Well.....Today was more of a challenge. The kids are rushing through their work, and not reading the instructions all the way through, I've had to have the kids go back and redo a few of their assignments. No major struggles today though, Faith still isn't feeling well, and is very clingy and crying a lot. If she doesn't get better soon, we may need to go see our Doctor again.
August 30th - Ok, so today has been well............CRAZY! The kids have attitudes, and are having a hard time concentrating on their school work. Faith was up a lot again last night coughing, which kept most of us up. Every time she woke up crying and coughing it woke up Patrick, so he had to nurse, and the combination of all that, and the kids being up WAY to late, has made for a very bad combination today!! Add to it, I needed to take the Malibu in to get some repairs done to it,only to find out there was a BUNCH of stuff that needed to be repaired. Thankfully the majority of it is covered by our warranty, but there are still some things there that will need to be taken care of in the near future.
So far today the kids have found themselves grounded from TV, and some pretty heft homework assigned. The way Brian and I figure, if they can't due their work during "class time", they will still have to do it as homework. That is how it is in a traditional school, so why should the rules be different here at home?
August 31st- Friday went much smoother. It helped out at lot, that is was a pretty light day as far as assignments went. The kids did a great job staying on track and completing their work in a timely manner. We are looking forward to the long weekend.
My thoughts: As I look back this week. For a first week of school it didn't go to bad, the kids made some bad choices and suffered the consequences because of it. However, I think they now know mom means business, and home school isn't going to be as easy as they thought it would be. The other thing they learned this week, was Dad will back me up on any punishment I hand out, and he may even add to it! So best just to get to work, and get it done, OH and pay attention to the work we are doing, so we don't have to go back and redo a bunch of work as homework! All in all a pretty good first week of school, we managed to get a full weeks worth of work done, in what I had planned on doing just half days. Next week we will add Faith and her school work :)
We are using Seton Home Study this year, and while the suggested schedule doesn't start until after Labor day, the kids have been very excited to get started. So Brian and I talked about it, and we thought it would be a good idea to go ahead and get started a week early, while the kids are excited.
August 27th - I will say this first day has been nice. I thought since we are starting a week "early" I would let the kids do "1/2 days" this week, and see what we can get accomplished. I started school at 9:30 this morning, and the kids only have a few more subjects to go. I can see us easily being done, with a full day of Curriculum by 1pm. Which is much further then I thought we would get. Granted that is on the kids side of things, I will still have the grading the work, and such this evening, the nice thing is, Brian is going to work with the kids on Math and History. He also is going to help me with the grading of their work in the evening hours.
We thought it wise to start out slow, and make sure we get into a good routine from the start, we'll try it this way for a few weeks and make adjustments as needed. So far we are doing pretty good.
August 28th - Today went just as smoothly as yesterday. I worked with Faith for a little bit, but that proved to be a bit of a challenge, as she is not feeling good and the cough isn't getting any better, and she isn't sleeping well. I think I will hold off on starting her until next week. Hopefully she will be over what ever this is she has, and will be more into doing her work.
August 29th - Well.....Today was more of a challenge. The kids are rushing through their work, and not reading the instructions all the way through, I've had to have the kids go back and redo a few of their assignments. No major struggles today though, Faith still isn't feeling well, and is very clingy and crying a lot. If she doesn't get better soon, we may need to go see our Doctor again.
August 30th - Ok, so today has been well............CRAZY! The kids have attitudes, and are having a hard time concentrating on their school work. Faith was up a lot again last night coughing, which kept most of us up. Every time she woke up crying and coughing it woke up Patrick, so he had to nurse, and the combination of all that, and the kids being up WAY to late, has made for a very bad combination today!! Add to it, I needed to take the Malibu in to get some repairs done to it,only to find out there was a BUNCH of stuff that needed to be repaired. Thankfully the majority of it is covered by our warranty, but there are still some things there that will need to be taken care of in the near future.
So far today the kids have found themselves grounded from TV, and some pretty heft homework assigned. The way Brian and I figure, if they can't due their work during "class time", they will still have to do it as homework. That is how it is in a traditional school, so why should the rules be different here at home?
August 31st- Friday went much smoother. It helped out at lot, that is was a pretty light day as far as assignments went. The kids did a great job staying on track and completing their work in a timely manner. We are looking forward to the long weekend.
My thoughts: As I look back this week. For a first week of school it didn't go to bad, the kids made some bad choices and suffered the consequences because of it. However, I think they now know mom means business, and home school isn't going to be as easy as they thought it would be. The other thing they learned this week, was Dad will back me up on any punishment I hand out, and he may even add to it! So best just to get to work, and get it done, OH and pay attention to the work we are doing, so we don't have to go back and redo a bunch of work as homework! All in all a pretty good first week of school, we managed to get a full weeks worth of work done, in what I had planned on doing just half days. Next week we will add Faith and her school work :)
Monday, July 23, 2012
Summer....where is it going?
I was helping the kids pick up their messes just a little while ago, and it occurred to me. It's almost the end of July. Soon Libby will be 12 (what??), and we will be starting school. While we are still working on getting the "school room" set up, we are making progress on it everyday.
So far this summer, this is what we have accomplished as a family:
Working on getting rid of some bad habits, and putting good habits in their places:
We have started working with the kids, on being kind to each other. I don't think they always realize how they are speaking to each other, and how hurtful words can be. So we are working on asking for forgiveness, and giving it as well. Both can be very hard to do.
Getting into a routine of sorts, with the chores and such.
Chores are a new thing in our house, as I have mentioned before, we never really made the kids have/do chores, because we felt guilty with spending so much time at work. When we came home we were selfish, and wanted to spend all the time we could with our kids. So this has been a bit of a challenge, but I will say the kids are really coming around to the idea of chores. They have figured out, if they do "chores" during the week and pick up after themselves, we don't have to spend all weekend trying to "catch up" on house cleaning. We can actually go do fun things together as a family! What a concept!
The room upstairs is going to be divided. 1/2 the girls room, the other 1/2 will be the school room.
Most of you know, and I guess now the rest of you will know. We have decided to home-school our children this school year. We feel after spending lots of time in prayer and seeking the council of our priest, family,and friends, this is the best thing for our family this year. We are going to take homeschooling one year at a time, and re-evaluate each year. "What is best for our family? What helps us to grow in faith, and spirituality as a family, and follow God's plan for us, as his (mostly) obedient children?" (this is something we have to work on everyday).
Getting organized and removing some of the clutter that has accumulated in the last 12 years of living in our house.
Some of you know the challenges that arise in living in a nearly 100 year old farm house. One of the challenges is the lack of storage (only 2 closets) and small rooms. However we are thankful for having a roof over our heads that keeps us warm or cool(depending on the season) and dry. So we are trying to go through all the stuff we have accumulated over the years, and weed out what we don't need or use. If any of you have ever done this, you know that it takes time and patience (which is not something I have a lot of! Darn Irish heritage....LOL)
Well there you have it. That is our summer so far. Now don't get me wrong, we have had lots of fun as well. Such as taking the kids, and one of their friends to see the free summer movies at the local theater. Going to a drive-in movie for the first time, and getting some swimming in there as well. It's been a crazy, busy, fun summer. I am looking forward to the adventures of the rest of this summer, and continuing into this fall.
So far this summer, this is what we have accomplished as a family:
Working on getting rid of some bad habits, and putting good habits in their places:
We have started working with the kids, on being kind to each other. I don't think they always realize how they are speaking to each other, and how hurtful words can be. So we are working on asking for forgiveness, and giving it as well. Both can be very hard to do.
Getting into a routine of sorts, with the chores and such.
Chores are a new thing in our house, as I have mentioned before, we never really made the kids have/do chores, because we felt guilty with spending so much time at work. When we came home we were selfish, and wanted to spend all the time we could with our kids. So this has been a bit of a challenge, but I will say the kids are really coming around to the idea of chores. They have figured out, if they do "chores" during the week and pick up after themselves, we don't have to spend all weekend trying to "catch up" on house cleaning. We can actually go do fun things together as a family! What a concept!
The room upstairs is going to be divided. 1/2 the girls room, the other 1/2 will be the school room.
Most of you know, and I guess now the rest of you will know. We have decided to home-school our children this school year. We feel after spending lots of time in prayer and seeking the council of our priest, family,and friends, this is the best thing for our family this year. We are going to take homeschooling one year at a time, and re-evaluate each year. "What is best for our family? What helps us to grow in faith, and spirituality as a family, and follow God's plan for us, as his (mostly) obedient children?" (this is something we have to work on everyday).
Getting organized and removing some of the clutter that has accumulated in the last 12 years of living in our house.
Some of you know the challenges that arise in living in a nearly 100 year old farm house. One of the challenges is the lack of storage (only 2 closets) and small rooms. However we are thankful for having a roof over our heads that keeps us warm or cool(depending on the season) and dry. So we are trying to go through all the stuff we have accumulated over the years, and weed out what we don't need or use. If any of you have ever done this, you know that it takes time and patience (which is not something I have a lot of! Darn Irish heritage....LOL)
Well there you have it. That is our summer so far. Now don't get me wrong, we have had lots of fun as well. Such as taking the kids, and one of their friends to see the free summer movies at the local theater. Going to a drive-in movie for the first time, and getting some swimming in there as well. It's been a crazy, busy, fun summer. I am looking forward to the adventures of the rest of this summer, and continuing into this fall.
Monday, June 11, 2012
Our weekend
What a great weekend!
We spent Saturday afternoon listening to the radio,and dancing with the kids. Then it was off to do the grocery shopping (that I should have done on Friday). When we got home, Daddy (Brian) made us some AWESOME chicken on the grill and we had baked potatoes with it.
Sunday we went to church like normal, ran to Walmart to pick up a birthday present for Zac's 1st birthday, and then headed to the birthday party, where the kids had a TON of fun! (Thanks Tami!) Libby, and Justin got soaked in a water fight, and Faith got wet too, just not as wet as Libby and Justin (who were dumping BUCKETS of water on each other) LOL! Patrick and Zac played in the water too, in a little swimming pool. Zac I have to say is much better about water, Patrick cried for a pretty long time, about being in the water (he HATES baths). We left him in the water until he stopped crying, and it was shortly after, Libby tried to play with him, by dumping water on him, to which he started screaming again....oh well!
The really nice thing about all of this? We were able to enjoy our selves this weekend, and not spend the entire weekend inside cleaning, because we had maintained the house all week! Again it's a MAJOR accomplishment for this to have happened. The white board is working wonders! I am still just writing the chores up there, and the kids do them. This week I am introducing "morning" chores and "afternoon" chores it preparation for school this fall. Gradually I am adding more and more things the kids can do around the house to help out. Now before you start thinking I am using them for slave labor, and they are spending all day inside cleaning, let me clarify something. They each have 3 chores to do in the morning, and 3 I am adding to the afternoon. IF the kids get right to it, and don't mess around, these chores should take them no more then 30 minuets in total to do! Each of them putting in 30 minutes in the morning, and 30 minutes in the afternoon, saves me a LOT of time, and we get to go do fun things in the afternoon. Like Going to the local $1.00 movies, or swimming (we may have to figure something out with Patrick), or bowling. Now we haven't done the swimming or bowling yet, but the kids know that we CAN, if they keep up on their chores, because it allows me to say yes to these things with out thinking "I really should be at home cleaning".
This week we are going to start on the large task of the kids rooms. My plan is they will work hard on cleaning, and going through their stuff, for 15-30 minutes each day. Keep what they love, and either give or throw away what they don't (Thanks fly lady). Plus they have to maintain the area's already cleaned.
Again, wish us luck!
Monday, June 4, 2012
School is out
Well, we did it!
The kids and I survived the first full week of no school. I am actually pretty happy with the way things went. When I was talking with Brian on Friday (he had been out of town all week for training), I told him,I thought things went pretty well.
We managed to maintain the house and not let it get out of control with toys,clothes, and coloring pages/art projects everywhere. I feel this was a HUGE accomplishment,because, in the past when I would stay home with the kids for a day from work during summer vacation, the house would look like a tornado had attacked the inside of the house.
Looking back now I realize why.
When I was home with the kids for a day (from work) I would feel guilty for not spending much time with them, and didn't want to spend the one day I had taken off cleaning all day. So I would let it (everything) go, just to give the kids the attention I felt like the deserved. Looking back I now realize what I did was a really bad thing. I didn't hold them accountable for their actions. I should have been making them clean as they went, but, they were having so much fun, and I didn't want to spoil that with making them clean. I now know "quality" time with my children just means being available to them whenever they need me, and yes "quality time" can be done while cleaning, because it is teaching them valuable life lessons. Such as how to keeps things (most anything) picked up and tidy, will last them well into their adult lives. Cooking: again a valuable lesson to learn, they will use this too all their lives.
So, this summer I have vowed to make sure they know how to take care of themselves. Libby and Justin are getting old enough now, they can start doing some of the minor cooking in the house, and why not? they LOVE to bake with me, so why not start teaching them now, while they enjoy doing such things? They also love making their own grilled cheese sandwich and scrambled eggs, Yes I do believe it is time, for the kids to start doing more in the house.
This summer I have a few things planned that I would really like to accomplish before the end of the summer. One of my projects is cleaning out all un-needed or not used items, and trying to get this small storage challenged house of our organized once and for all. YES! I did say this summer. Again, it is a project I have put off way to long, because, again, I didn't want to spend the little time I had with the kids cleaning all the time. Well, living in a small house that has very few closets, and practically no storage can prove to be a bit of a challenge. So, that is my summer project with the kiddos! I'll let you know how it goes :)
All in all, as I said, it was a great week, the kids really pitched in when I asked them too, and I now know, it's ok to make them "work" and it is actually good for them. We have started something new, I have a whiteboard, to which I am writing their daily chores on. So when they get done with one, they can move to the next and not have to ask me, and I don't have to nag them. At this point I am going to let them do their chores anytime they want to, as long as they are done before bed. On days like today, when they have something special they want to do, I note on the board when the chores need to be completed by to be able to do what they want to. So far this morning it has gone VERY well. Libby is already done with her chores, Justin is working on his, and I have to help Faith with hers.
So there you have it!
Wish us luck!
The kids and I survived the first full week of no school. I am actually pretty happy with the way things went. When I was talking with Brian on Friday (he had been out of town all week for training), I told him,I thought things went pretty well.
We managed to maintain the house and not let it get out of control with toys,clothes, and coloring pages/art projects everywhere. I feel this was a HUGE accomplishment,because, in the past when I would stay home with the kids for a day from work during summer vacation, the house would look like a tornado had attacked the inside of the house.
Looking back now I realize why.
When I was home with the kids for a day (from work) I would feel guilty for not spending much time with them, and didn't want to spend the one day I had taken off cleaning all day. So I would let it (everything) go, just to give the kids the attention I felt like the deserved. Looking back I now realize what I did was a really bad thing. I didn't hold them accountable for their actions. I should have been making them clean as they went, but, they were having so much fun, and I didn't want to spoil that with making them clean. I now know "quality" time with my children just means being available to them whenever they need me, and yes "quality time" can be done while cleaning, because it is teaching them valuable life lessons. Such as how to keeps things (most anything) picked up and tidy, will last them well into their adult lives. Cooking: again a valuable lesson to learn, they will use this too all their lives.
So, this summer I have vowed to make sure they know how to take care of themselves. Libby and Justin are getting old enough now, they can start doing some of the minor cooking in the house, and why not? they LOVE to bake with me, so why not start teaching them now, while they enjoy doing such things? They also love making their own grilled cheese sandwich and scrambled eggs, Yes I do believe it is time, for the kids to start doing more in the house.
This summer I have a few things planned that I would really like to accomplish before the end of the summer. One of my projects is cleaning out all un-needed or not used items, and trying to get this small storage challenged house of our organized once and for all. YES! I did say this summer. Again, it is a project I have put off way to long, because, again, I didn't want to spend the little time I had with the kids cleaning all the time. Well, living in a small house that has very few closets, and practically no storage can prove to be a bit of a challenge. So, that is my summer project with the kiddos! I'll let you know how it goes :)
All in all, as I said, it was a great week, the kids really pitched in when I asked them too, and I now know, it's ok to make them "work" and it is actually good for them. We have started something new, I have a whiteboard, to which I am writing their daily chores on. So when they get done with one, they can move to the next and not have to ask me, and I don't have to nag them. At this point I am going to let them do their chores anytime they want to, as long as they are done before bed. On days like today, when they have something special they want to do, I note on the board when the chores need to be completed by to be able to do what they want to. So far this morning it has gone VERY well. Libby is already done with her chores, Justin is working on his, and I have to help Faith with hers.
So there you have it!
Wish us luck!
Monday, April 23, 2012
Nutri-grain bars, take II
I titled this blog the way I did, because I wanted to try the bars again. I also wanted to modify the recipe a bit and see what I come up with. Now the last time, they came out great, don't get me wrong. My older 2 children (ages 11 & 9) LOVED them, the four year old however wanted NOTHING to do with them like they were. It got me thinking, the "real" nutr-grain bars you buy in the store, have a cake-like appearance and consistency to them. The ones I made using the recipe, while they where good, they were also kind of dry and crumbly.
So, what could I do to change that? Well, here is what I have done, and we'll see how it works out. I went ahead with the recipe as stated, BUT(!), I didn't use the butter (OMGosh! that's a lot of butter!), instead I made the cake mix as stated on the box, and added the quick oats into it. I used a whole jar of jam (18 oz instead of 12), still using just the 1 table spoon of water. Next I started spooning the really thick mixture in to an already greased pan. This did prove to be a bit challenging as it was more of a batter, but didn't spread as easily as batter. None the less, with a fork, and a "patting" action, I had it spread to a pretty even consistency in the pan. Next came the jam, just like the directions said. Last I put the remaining amount of the batter on top, again using a more patting like action to smooth it over the top of the layer of jam. The bars are currently in the oven baking. They smell WONDERFUL!
After baking for 30 minutes this is what it looked like:
As you can see it turned out nice and brown on top. But this time the "bars" are a little to soft and moist. I know, I know, there is no pleasing me! (LOL) Really there is, I just need to find a way to fine tune this recipe, so it is the best combination. The kids just got home from school and saw the bars cooling on the table and dug right into them. Faith didn't like them at all, Justin LOVED them, Libby didn't like them. So there you have it. Not a success yet, but we'll get there. Thankfully I have a family who doesn't mind being test subjects for my recipes. Yes they are honest with me about the recipes, but are never unkind or nasty about it.
So, what could I do to change that? Well, here is what I have done, and we'll see how it works out. I went ahead with the recipe as stated, BUT(!), I didn't use the butter (OMGosh! that's a lot of butter!), instead I made the cake mix as stated on the box, and added the quick oats into it. I used a whole jar of jam (18 oz instead of 12), still using just the 1 table spoon of water. Next I started spooning the really thick mixture in to an already greased pan. This did prove to be a bit challenging as it was more of a batter, but didn't spread as easily as batter. None the less, with a fork, and a "patting" action, I had it spread to a pretty even consistency in the pan. Next came the jam, just like the directions said. Last I put the remaining amount of the batter on top, again using a more patting like action to smooth it over the top of the layer of jam. The bars are currently in the oven baking. They smell WONDERFUL!
After baking for 30 minutes this is what it looked like:
As you can see it turned out nice and brown on top. But this time the "bars" are a little to soft and moist. I know, I know, there is no pleasing me! (LOL) Really there is, I just need to find a way to fine tune this recipe, so it is the best combination. The kids just got home from school and saw the bars cooling on the table and dug right into them. Faith didn't like them at all, Justin LOVED them, Libby didn't like them. So there you have it. Not a success yet, but we'll get there. Thankfully I have a family who doesn't mind being test subjects for my recipes. Yes they are honest with me about the recipes, but are never unkind or nasty about it.
Wednesday, April 18, 2012
Home made nutri-grain bars
I found a recipe for home made nutri-grain bars. My kids LOVE these things. However if you buy them, you know how expensive they can be. When you are a stay at home mom on a tight budget, you start looking for ways to make some of these things yourself.
So, here is what it looks like step by step:
So, here is what it looks like step by step:
These are the ingredients: Yellow Cake mix, oats, Jam, and butter
This is what the oats and cakes mixed together look like
(note: since I am making these for the kids, including 7 month old Patrick, I ground the oats into a flour like consistency)
This is with the butter added in.
See how crumbly it is?
Now you just press 1/2 the mixture in to a greased pan.
Now add the rest of the mixture on top of the jam and press down.
Now off to the oven.
This is what it looks like coming out of the oven. Lightly browned.
The directions say to bake for 20 minutes.
But I found it needed to go for a little longer and extra 10 minutes was perfect.
(Total cooking time of 30 min.)
This is what they look like all cut into "bars"
Next time I make these, I might try adding in a little water or something to the remaining 1/2 of the mixture so that it spreads a little easier, and to give it the store bought look :)
They are thicker, but I think I may have used to much of the mix on the bottom.
Next time I will use the same amount of ingredients, but I will use a rolling pin to thin in out a little more, and bake in 2 pans instead of one.
If you would like the recipe is below.
I plan on trying to make them with different flavored jam (grape, apple, etc.)
Recipe:
1 pkg yellow cake mix
3/4 cup butter
2 1/2 cups quick oats
12 ounces preserves or jam
1 T water
Preheat oven to 375. Melt butter. Combine cake
mix and oats in a large bowl; stir in the melted
butter until the mixture is crumbly. Measure half
of this mixture (about 3 cups) into a greased
13x9x2−inch pan. Press firmly into pan to cover
the bottom.
Combine preserves and water; spoon over crumb
mixture in pan, and spread evenly. Cover with
remaining crumb mixture. Pat firmly to make top
even.
Bake at 375 for 20 minutes−−top should be very
light brown. Cool completely before cutting into
bars.
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